Nadia Nakai Opens Up About Missing AKA, While Musa Khawula Adds Fuel to the Fire
Nadia Nakai Opens Up About Missing AKA, While Musa Khawula Adds Fuel to the Fire
South African rapper Nadia Nakai recently poured her heart out on social media, sharing how much she misses her late boyfriend, AKA (Kiernan Jarryd Forbes). However, this heartfelt moment was met with the signature trolling style of controversial blogger Musa Khawula, whose snarky commentary overshadowed what could have been a moment of empathy for the grieving artist.
Nadia Nakai’s Emotional IG Live: Remembering AKA
Nadia Nakai, affectionately known as “Bragga” to her fans, took to Instagram Live to connect with her followers, opening up about the emotional weight she continues to carry following AKA’s tragic death. The couple had made their relationship public in 2021, and their bond was something fans frequently admired. However, everything changed in February 2023 when AKA was fatally shot outside a Durban restaurant, sending shockwaves across the country.
During her IG Live, Nadia candidly spoke about how she missed being able to vent to and cuddle with the man she referred to as the “love of her life.” Responding to one fan’s comment, she revealed, “Just venting to the love of your life, yeah. Like Babes, I just wanna cuddle in your skin.” It was a raw, vulnerable moment for Nadia, who has been open about her grief since AKA’s passing.
But, as with anything on social media, moments of sincerity can quickly be met with cynicism and mockery, especially when it involves public figures. Enter Musa Khawula, a notorious social media personality and blogger known for stirring the pot with his provocative takes.
Musa Khawula’s Trolling: An Unnecessary Dig
Musa Khawula wasted no time in adding his signature twist to Nadia’s IG Live moment. Posting a clip from her interaction on X (formerly Twitter), Musa captioned it in a way that raised eyebrows and stirred controversy: “Nadia Nakai opens up about missing the love of DJ Zinhle’s life that she convinced herself was hers. Nadia Nakai says she misses venting and cuddling with AKA.”
The reference to DJ Zinhle, AKA’s ex-girlfriend and mother of his daughter, left many social media users cringing. Khawula’s insinuation that Nadia was merely a stand-in for DJ Zinhle in AKA’s life was not only harsh but also disrespectful to both women involved. Fans of Nadia, as well as some neutral observers, were quick to call out Musa for his unnecessary trolling.
“That caption was so unnecessary,” one user remarked, while another chimed in with, “The gaslighting in your captions kills me, man.” Khawula’s track record for stirring drama, particularly when it involves South African celebrities, meant that his comments were unsurprising to many, yet still left a bitter taste.
Fans React: Divided Opinions
As Nadia navigated through comments during her IG Live, she faced a mix of responses. While many fans expressed their support and encouraged her to continue grieving in her own time, there were some who gently urged her to move forward, with suggestions that she collaborate with other artists to help cope. Still, others found Musa’s reference to AKA’s past relationship with DJ Zinhle more intriguing than Nadia’s emotional admissions.
In an online world where every action of a celebrity is scrutinized, Nadia’s heartfelt expression of grief was met with contrasting reactions. Some rallied around her, offering kind words and understanding, while others echoed Khawula’s sentiments, unable to let go of the past entanglements between DJ Zinhle, AKA, and now Nadia.
A Complex Love Triangle: AKA, DJ Zinhle, and Nadia Nakai
The mention of DJ Zinhle in Musa’s post is a reference to a complex web of relationships that has followed AKA in the public eye for years. AKA and DJ Zinhle were once one of South Africa’s most beloved celebrity couples. They share a daughter, Kairo, and have been linked since their high-profile relationship first made headlines years ago.
Even after their split, the bond between AKA and DJ Zinhle never seemed to fully fade in the eyes of the public, especially given that they remained in each other’s lives as co-parents. This lingering connection made it difficult for many to accept AKA’s new relationship with Nadia Nakai when they began dating in 2021. Despite the tattooed love declarations and the happy moments they shared, Nadia was always subject to comparisons with DJ Zinhle—a shadow she could never quite escape.
For Musa Khawula to stoke the flames of this past relationship, particularly during a time when Nadia is still grieving, speaks to the broader issue of how celebrity women in South Africa, and globally, are often pitted against each other. In this instance, Nadia’s heartfelt tribute to her late boyfriend was overshadowed by the insistence on linking her to his past, rather than focusing on her present pain.
Musa Khawula: Controversial Figure or Truth-Teller?
Musa Khawula has built a brand on being unapologetically brash and often cruel in his commentary on South African celebrities. Whether on X or in his blog posts, he doesn’t shy away from saying what many deem inappropriate or over-the-top. Some view him as a truth-teller, exposing the unvarnished realities of the celebrity world. Others, however, see him as little more than an opportunist, preying on people’s vulnerabilities for likes and retweets.
In this particular instance, Khawula’s comment about Nadia and DJ Zinhle was seen by many as a low blow. Instead of sympathizing with Nadia during a difficult time, he chose to focus on a narrative that pits two women against each other—a tired trope that many fans are growing weary of.
The Lasting Impact of AKA’s Death on Nadia Nakai
For Nadia Nakai, AKA’s death has left a void that is impossible to fill. Since his tragic passing, she has spoken multiple times about the depth of her grief, revealing how difficult it has been to move on from the sudden loss. The two had gone public with their romance in 2021, and it wasn’t long before they were seen as one of Mzansi’s power couples. Their matching tattoos were symbolic of the commitment they shared, and fans eagerly followed their relationship milestones.
When AKA was shot dead in Durban in February 2023, it sent shockwaves not only through his fanbase but also through the South African entertainment industry as a whole. For Nadia, who had lost the man she called the love of her life, the road to healing has been long and painful. Her Instagram Live session, which was intended to be an intimate conversation with her fans, was a moment where she opened up about that ongoing grief, only for it to be derailed by Musa’s trolling.
The Broader Conversation: Navigating Grief in the Public Eye
Nadia Nakai’s situation sheds light on the broader issue of how public figures navigate personal grief while constantly being in the public eye. In a world where social media trolls are quick to judge and where personal relationships are dissected for entertainment, it can be challenging for celebrities to express their pain without being subjected to unnecessary criticism.
In Nadia’s case, the persistent comparisons to DJ Zinhle and the scrutiny of her relationship with AKA have only added layers of complexity to her grieving process. Fans who have supported her through this time often point out that grief is not linear, and the expectation that she should simply “move on” disregards the deep emotional bonds she shared with AKA.
Conclusion: Trolling vs. Compassion
As Musa Khawula continues to court controversy with his provocative posts, Nadia Nakai remains focused on her healing journey. The incident is a reminder of the fine line between social commentary and insensitivity. While Musa’s trolling may earn him engagement and attention, it is clear that not all of his followers appreciate the tone of his comments.
For Nadia, this moment highlights the need for empathy in an increasingly hostile online space. As she continues to mourn AKA, the hope is that her fans, and perhaps even her critics, will allow her the grace and space to do so without turning her pain into entertainment.